NEUROTIC

an invisible injury 

involving distress

though the behavior is not outside socially acceptable norms  

the effects may involve: 

...anxiety, 

sadness or depression, 

anger, 

irritability, 

mental confusion, 

low sense of self-worth, 

phobic avoidance, 

vigilance, 

impulsive and compulsive acts, 

lethargy, 

cognitive problems such as unpleasant or disturbing thoughts,

repetition of thoughts and obsession, 

habitual fantasizing, 

negativity and cynicism, 

Interpersonally, neurosis involves dependency,

aggressiveness, 

perfectionism, 

schizoid isolation, 

socio-culturally inappropriate behaviors